She Inherited My "Strong Voice"


I love to sing.  I love to sing loud. Really loud. I had a boyfriend in high school who called it my “strong voice”.  By “strong voice” I think he meant having a small birdie peck away at your ear drum while screeching in horror like a hawk was trying to swoop down and terrorize her young.  I’m sure I don’t need to go into great detail about having this take place in an enclosed area such as a vehicle(poor guy).  (Maybe that’s why it didn’t work out.) I would frequently burst into song walking through the house that I shared with my parents and not-so-gentle-and-understanding-and-patient brother. His response was, “LACY! STOP IT!” (Actually, I only saw his lips moved since my volume far exceeded his, but I’m sure that has to be pretty closed to what he was getting at.) At some point between then and now I stopped singing which could be for many reasons. Like my brother’s harsh words, wanting to prevent hearing loss in my children or simply keeping my husband around.  It isn’t something I think about too often and really don’t miss too much, but this last week I got a glimpse of myself twenty-some-odd years ago and it made me think…

 

We are fortunate enough in our small town to have an overpass. Every Sunday morning, a small group meets under the overpass for worship. It is cleverly titled “Worship Under the Bridge”. Get it?  That’s what we do and that’s where we do it. My family attended this past week.  The order of service is this: 3 songs. A message. 1 song. All of this laced with a few prayers and inconvenient train whistles throughout.  It is always a wonderful experience and it is always nice to worship outside the box and see how God is working in places you don’t frequent.

 

The songs are usually familiar to me and the kids so they can really understand the tune and tempo, and sing as if they were singing along with the radio.  Ramzee especially.  She was getting’ after it.  Of the twenty or so people in attendance that morning(including the worship leader with a mic), she may have been singing the loudest.  There was one point when she had her eyes closed and swaying her head like Ray Charles or Stevie Wonder.  THIS CHICK WAS WORSHIPPING.  I’m positive that no one cared or was bothered by her “strong voice”, in fact, I think it made a few of them smile. The thing about it is…she didn’t care who was watching, who was listening and who might have thought her voice was too “strong”. She was singing and praising and worshipping to the only one who matters. GOD. And I’m convinced that in that moment He was delighted and honored with her voice and blind man sway.

 

Psalm 100:1-2 tells us, “Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth. Worship the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.”

 

That’s what Ramz was doing right there before my very eyes. She was shouting for joy. She was glad in her worship. And those songs she sang…joyful!  The girl is 7 and I pray when she is 27 that she is singing her strong voice just as intensely and powerfully as she did this week. (Really I pray she finds a man that can handle it.)(Possibly a man with early onset hearing loss.)

 

If I had a dime for every lesson my own kids have taught me in their short lives…I’d have a boatload of dimes! But I especially love it when God uses them to teach me something about himself. I’m getting wiser(and older) and I don’t wanna miss this stuff!...FROM THIS SIDE OF THIRTY.